Jodie's Journey to New Hair and Confidence
Embracing Alternative Hair: My Journey to Confidence
After a former classmate's unkind comments about my hair loss, I began to wonder if there were extensions designed specifically for the top of the head. That curiosity led me to discover toppers, setting me on a path that would ultimately change my life.
After some time, I found toppers to be a bit cumbersome for everyday wear. Naturally, I gravitated towards wigs, and it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Wearing alternative hair has made me feel more like my youthful self, freeing me from the worry of small-town gossip.
Before discovering toppers and wigs, I tried everything to make my natural hair appear thicker. I added tons of highlights, spent a fortune on volumizing products, changed my part countless times, and even attempted the dreaded comb-over. No more. Now, wigs and toppers are my go-to, and it feels incredibly liberating!
My journey into alternative hair required extensive research. I watched countless YouTube videos and scoured online resources because I didn’t personally know anyone who wore alternative hair. Learning everything I could about wigs became a full-time job, but the effort was well worth it.
My loved ones were supportive throughout my journey. A few teenagers in my life were initially taken aback simply because they weren’t used to seeing me with so much hair. But they adjusted, and now, it’s just a part of me.
I no longer worry as much about what others think, though I’m still human—I have my moments of sadness about hair loss. When those feelings creep in, I remind myself that I never had amazing hair to begin with, and now I can wear the hair of my dreams!
If you’re considering alternative hair but feel hesitant, my advice is: just do it. I used to be scared that people would judge me, but I’ve realized that people will judge no matter what. What matters most is doing what makes you feel good. Wearing wigs has boosted my self-esteem and helped me care less about others' opinions.
Finding Your Perfect Style and Color
Color can be tricky, so take your time. Watch plenty of review videos and find a reviewer with a similar natural color to yours. Study her content, and don’t get frustrated. It may take a few tries to find the perfect style and shade for you. And remember, Personal Hair Consultants are here to help—that’s our job, and we love it!
One of the best perks of wearing wigs? It has drastically reduced my morning routine! I can get ready faster than most of my family, leaving me with extra time to sleep in!
My Must-Have Essentials:
- A wide-tooth comb
- A continuous spray water bottle
- Scar tape for the part line
- Determination (yes, it’s essential!)
I keep my product use minimal, but I swear by the Estetica Revitalize and Shine Wig Mist. When it comes to styles, I love BelleTress. My all-time favorite was the discontinued Maxwella 18 in BrownSugar SweetCream. A close second is Bella by BelleTress in Hazelnut Syrup.
If you’re on the fence about alternative hair, I encourage you to take the leap. It’s not as scary as it seems, and the confidence boost is life-changing!
